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Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Communication Parents and Children Who Aren't Healthy Cause Troubled Teenagers

Most adolescents assess, communicate with parents doesn't help. In fact it can make them feel insecure. That's why older people losing thousands and thousands of opportunities to help their children in facing the problem of teenagers life.

Many teenagers who don't make a place to tell their parents. They tend to prefer to tell their friends or companions. Many of the reasons that made them not want to tell their parents. Maybe one of them, because their parents are too busy with his own affairs. Hence they feel there is no point to tell their parents. Things like this that will encourage and potentially make the adolescent becomes troubled teenagers.

A family sometimes serve only as a bus stop. Between husbands and wives, children and parents, and children often don't happen to good communication. Even if there is an opportunity just lip service, no chance or time to ask about personal problems among family members. Each only think about the purpose and its own interests. Even the family circumstances such as this can be worse than a bus stop. At a bus stop, every bus route and already has an agreed goal. But in a family a family that can happen to walk without having a clear direction and purpose, not even a treaty or agreement resulting from communications or family council. Each family member just to make her home as a place to eat, sleep, and to the toilet.

Many parents whose energy drained out at the office. Because it when come home tired mind and soul feel. In such a condition is usually someone lazy to communicate with others or to communicate with their children. A family whose members (especially between parents and children) often don't communicate, or communicate, but there will lead to the emergence of an authoritarian family atmosphere that isn't cool, even the atmosphere that will appear barren and hot. Teenagers will be difficult to grow into a healthy child when no healthy communication between parent and child. All this of course triggers the growth of troubled teenagers.

Families Who Fail to Perform Its Function Can Lead To Troubled Teenagers

Families who fail to perform its function is very potential to make a teenagers become troubled teenagers. Family has a function as a place of formation of the first adolescent personality, so the family took a leading role in the process of adolescent development. The first environment that provides a profound influence is the family environment. 

From family members,  father, mother and brothers sekandungnya teenagers will acquire all the basic skills both intellectual, moral or social. Family is where self-identification, personality development, development potential, the source of disappointment as well as happiness, satisfaction as well as the source of dissatisfaction, the source of anxiety as well as peace. If one family doesn't succeed or fail in achieving its function, it can cause young children at home not at home, losing the trust of parents and more confident to others, seeking refuge outside the home even consider his teenagers hell. Loss of harmony in the family will have a destructive effect as well as a confusing, because they lost their footing and grip of life. That's why teenagers potentially troubled teenagers.

Parents should function in a family that can give love and security for their children, pay attention, and foster maturation of the personality of his son. Don't let the child, especially children who are in adolescence, felt they didn't get all
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