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Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Communication Parents and Children Who Aren't Healthy Cause Troubled Teenagers

Most adolescents assess, communicate with parents doesn't help. In fact it can make them feel insecure. That's why older people losing thousands and thousands of opportunities to help their children in facing the problem of teenagers life.

Many teenagers who don't make a place to tell their parents. They tend to prefer to tell their friends or companions. Many of the reasons that made them not want to tell their parents. Maybe one of them, because their parents are too busy with his own affairs. Hence they feel there is no point to tell their parents. Things like this that will encourage and potentially make the adolescent becomes troubled teenagers.

A family sometimes serve only as a bus stop. Between husbands and wives, children and parents, and children often don't happen to good communication. Even if there is an opportunity just lip service, no chance or time to ask about personal problems among family members. Each only think about the purpose and its own interests. Even the family circumstances such as this can be worse than a bus stop. At a bus stop, every bus route and already has an agreed goal. But in a family a family that can happen to walk without having a clear direction and purpose, not even a treaty or agreement resulting from communications or family council. Each family member just to make her home as a place to eat, sleep, and to the toilet.

Many parents whose energy drained out at the office. Because it when come home tired mind and soul feel. In such a condition is usually someone lazy to communicate with others or to communicate with their children. A family whose members (especially between parents and children) often don't communicate, or communicate, but there will lead to the emergence of an authoritarian family atmosphere that isn't cool, even the atmosphere that will appear barren and hot. Teenagers will be difficult to grow into a healthy child when no healthy communication between parent and child. All this of course triggers the growth of troubled teenagers.

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