Troubled Teenagers with Free Sex

Free sex is one of the existing problems among our youth that brings our youth become troubled teenagers. Free sex means sexual relations outside marriage. Free sex tends to be done by teenagers who are affected negatively by their friends aren't good. Teenagers who like to consume more susceptible to drug-free sex, while not denying that adolescents don't consume drugs could also participate in the association free sex fall. Information about the dangers of casual sex is very important for teenagers to be careful with their contemporary society. Free sex is very dangerous for a teenager's life, especially for health and their future. Free sex certainly raises a lot of harm to the perpetrator, there is no useful gain, the profit is certainly a novelty that will eventually plunges us into a new problem. Research on sex in various countries say that adolescents will avoid sex free treatment if they can communicate with their parents talking about sex. That means parents must educate sexuality to their children.

 

Family Factors That Make Troubled Teenagers with Drugs

Drugs have become a very serious concern in the world. Many young people fall into it, the reason for the involvement of youth into the drug that makes her troubled teenagers, should be viewed in comprehensive, not unilaterally, which means not only questioning the environmental community but also to see their family circumstances and the various elements that exist. 

Family is one factor that can encaurage teenagers falls into drugs. Facts speak not all happy families in them. Many families have their own problems within the family. One of them a lot off messy family relationships characterized by parents who aren't in harmony or death of the communication links exist between family members, which can couse a divorce between their parents. Their parents will be busy with their problems so that they forget their children. Therefore, children have no place to turn to so they can open the door to the valley of the drugs.

The incident could have plunged their young children into the drugs because the condition is unstable. They will more easily fall into the valley of drugs and will certainly make them into troubled teenagers.

As a transition period of adolescence is a time filled with doubts, difficulties, and gejola, either for itself or for teenagers parents. Often, most parents don't understand and don't understand the circumstances of their teenagers children, all of it can lead to misunderstandings between them, between parents and their teenagers. Things like that certainly doesn't help the adolescent through this period with the fair. It can cause many disorders, such as an interruption in drug abuse, juvenile delinquency, and other negative behaviors. All this certainly makes teenagers become troubled teenagers.

Troubled Teenagers with Drugs

Many things can lead to troubled teenagers, one of the drugs. Drugs will make teenagers into troubled teenagers. Most teenagers who fall into drug addiction to smoking stems from. Drugs widely used by people who aren't responsible for plunging the influence or other people to want to have sex.

Not a few people who died in vain because of drugs, especially the teenagers. Although not a few people who died from drugs, but drug users each year isn't reduced, even increased. When used excessive drug addiction will lead to the wearer and will certainly lead to physical and psychological disorders for the wearer.

Dangers of drugs now being attacked anyone, especially teenagers who are still sitting in Junior High School (JHS) and Senior High School (SHS). Drug is very dangerous for the lives of people who wear them because drugs can damage the nerves of their brains, not only that but all the organs of the body they could be affected by drugs and certainly all of them can be life threatening.

Until now, the spread of drugs is almost inevitable. Drug eradication efforts have also often carried out but are still less likely to avoid drugs among adolescents and adults. Until now considered to be an effective way to prevent drug abuse among children, which is their own family. Families, especially their parents are expected to supervise and control their children so as not to fall into the drug. Drugs are a critical issue and also complicated that can't be solved only by an individual alone but everyone must be involved in solving the drug problem that is happening today.

Other Terms Of Troubled Teenagers

In Indonesia, the limitation period of adolescence is the age of 15 to 24 years. The experts suggested that the reasons underlying the behavior of adolescents is associated with the efforts for the development of proof of identity. Results showed that adolescent understanding of the impact of personal and interpersonal sexual behavior that is done should be taken into consideration.
Adolescent emotional closeness with their peers feel closer even a teenagers with emotional closeness with their parents and their families. Troubled teenagers are marked with an inferiority complex that intesitasnya, highly emotionally unstable, difficult to get along, and many more. In troubled teenagers whose names are very vulnerable with cigarettes, booze, drugs such as narcotics, and sex.

Adolescents often test the limits set by their parents. Some adolescents are consistent in most negative attitudes. Teenagers like this certainly raises concerns among parents separate them. Actually, a more logical factors to control or realize their troubled teenagers is certainly their own families, especially their parents.

Parenting and How to Educate Children Less Precise Causes Troubled Teenagers

Most of the children often become what is said by his parents. Expressions of the less educated are sometimes out by accident. This usually happens because their parents are upset by family problems and work but the child doesn't know or don't even want to know.
Some treatments aren't appropriate parents or adults don't, namely:

1. Very protect and pamper children.
2. Only physical or material satisfaction alone in trying to influence and educate children and giving less satisfaction and inner warmth.
3. Very autocratic control children and children with hard to treat.
4. Showed concern about the future of demonstratively in front of children.

There are parents who have a belief and attitude that their children don't want the troubled or have been, this attitude may arise due to the bitter experience of having experienced by their parents as a child or caused by feelings of guilt for not taking care of their children because of busy they are overactive and hence to meet all your child's request will be luxury goods with the expectation that the child is entertained and shared the love of their parents. But with the actions that the child be a victim overproteksi error resulted in the child's education and not able to achieve personal maturity, lazy to take care of the purposes of his own life, always dependent on others, a child is mentally weak, and have no self initiative or self-esteem because it isn't capable of facing life's difficulties, they many have a serious inner conflicts. Their actions tend to arbitrarily impose the will, and their willingness, egoistic or selfish, and the actions of other unnatural that often conflict with the moral and legal norms. All this makes a child into a troubled teenagers who isn't a healthy adolescents in terms of behavior.

Communication Parents and Children Who Aren't Healthy Cause Troubled Teenagers

Most adolescents assess, communicate with parents doesn't help. In fact it can make them feel insecure. That's why older people losing thousands and thousands of opportunities to help their children in facing the problem of teenagers life.

Many teenagers who don't make a place to tell their parents. They tend to prefer to tell their friends or companions. Many of the reasons that made them not want to tell their parents. Maybe one of them, because their parents are too busy with his own affairs. Hence they feel there is no point to tell their parents. Things like this that will encourage and potentially make the adolescent becomes troubled teenagers.

A family sometimes serve only as a bus stop. Between husbands and wives, children and parents, and children often don't happen to good communication. Even if there is an opportunity just lip service, no chance or time to ask about personal problems among family members. Each only think about the purpose and its own interests. Even the family circumstances such as this can be worse than a bus stop. At a bus stop, every bus route and already has an agreed goal. But in a family a family that can happen to walk without having a clear direction and purpose, not even a treaty or agreement resulting from communications or family council. Each family member just to make her home as a place to eat, sleep, and to the toilet.

Many parents whose energy drained out at the office. Because it when come home tired mind and soul feel. In such a condition is usually someone lazy to communicate with others or to communicate with their children. A family whose members (especially between parents and children) often don't communicate, or communicate, but there will lead to the emergence of an authoritarian family atmosphere that isn't cool, even the atmosphere that will appear barren and hot. Teenagers will be difficult to grow into a healthy child when no healthy communication between parent and child. All this of course triggers the growth of troubled teenagers.

Families Who Fail to Perform Its Function Can Lead To Troubled Teenagers

Families who fail to perform its function is very potential to make a teenagers become troubled teenagers. Family has a function as a place of formation of the first adolescent personality, so the family took a leading role in the process of adolescent development. The first environment that provides a profound influence is the family environment. 

From family members,  father, mother and brothers sekandungnya teenagers will acquire all the basic skills both intellectual, moral or social. Family is where self-identification, personality development, development potential, the source of disappointment as well as happiness, satisfaction as well as the source of dissatisfaction, the source of anxiety as well as peace. If one family doesn't succeed or fail in achieving its function, it can cause young children at home not at home, losing the trust of parents and more confident to others, seeking refuge outside the home even consider his teenagers hell. Loss of harmony in the family will have a destructive effect as well as a confusing, because they lost their footing and grip of life. That's why teenagers potentially troubled teenagers.

Parents should function in a family that can give love and security for their children, pay attention, and foster maturation of the personality of his son. Don't let the child, especially children who are in adolescence, felt they didn't get all.