Here is an effective way of communicating that should be parents to their teenagers, for teenagers they don't become troubled teenagers depressed:
1. Opening the door to their hearts, by revealing the expression that allows adolescents to discuss or tell you more about their lives, encourage teenagers to be able to close and pour out their hearts, and the most important thing is to cultivate a sense of accepted and appreciated in children troubled teenagers.
2. Able to actively listen to all that is told by troubled teenagers. Parents should be able to describe the feelings of children properly. That way parents can certainly understand the feelings of their adolescent children, which they send with their verbal and nonverbal language. Benefits of active listening that is, helping children isn't afraid of feeling positive or negative, to develop good relationships with parents, teenagers ease in solving the problems they face, improve the ability of children to listen to the opinions of parents, and increase the sense of responsibility owned by troubled teenagers.
3. Communicating with empathic, meaning that trying to understand the new first be understood. As a parent, in empathic listening, parents should try to get into the frame of mind and into the feelings of your teenagers. As a parent, not just listen with the ear but should be with the eyes and hearts as well. Our hearts as parents need to feel, understand, and explore the problems being experienced by our teenagers. Therefore we must be able to observe the nonverbal messages expressed by our teenagers.
So, from now on we as parents need to communicate effectively with our teenagers children who may have been problematic. Don't let our children suddenly becoming depressed because of severe problems that they face without you beside them..
3. Communicating with empathic, meaning that trying to understand the new first be understood. As a parent, in empathic listening, parents should try to get into the frame of mind and into the feelings of your teenagers. As a parent, not just listen with the ear but should be with the eyes and hearts as well. Our hearts as parents need to feel, understand, and explore the problems being experienced by our teenagers. Therefore we must be able to observe the nonverbal messages expressed by our teenagers.
So, from now on we as parents need to communicate effectively with our teenagers children who may have been problematic. Don't let our children suddenly becoming depressed because of severe problems that they face without you beside them..
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